Respect of the individual comes way before respect of some collective body in my worldview. Each man or woman approaches differently the symbolic act of pledging allegiance to something such as a country. Some people don't like it because it mentions us as being one nation under God. Others don't participate because it is against their religious/ethical/philosophical values to pledge allegiance to anything. I'm more of the latter. When I said it as a kid and until now, there was nothing in my being that responded positively to the act. If there is no inherent truth there, then it's not for me. Respect people.
I don't know about anyone else, but the concept of living in a country, in a place known as the USA, has hardly any weight behind it in my everyday life. All I know is that I live on a planet we call Earth. I do what I have to do, do what I want to do, have things done to me, and continue. I feel bad about people who live in nations that they don't want to live in because it doesn't allow them to be who or what they want. I generally just feel bad that the Earth is divided into nations with conflicting interests and methods of governing.