Normally we go to Dana's grandmother's and her father's whole family gets together (I don't have any family in NYS). This year we're just going over to her parents, I guess a few people are coming but I hope it won't be overwhelming. Last time we did anevent with her mother's family, we made a huge bowl of fruit salad with fresh pineapple, melon, and apples (cost us about $10), and we didn't get to eat any of it. We were tasked with running out to the store to pick something up, and when we got back it was all gone.
I'm making sweet potato pie and cranberry sauce with lime (and maybe some rum, don't tell Dana).